Does your partner want more sex than you? Is your desire for sex lower or nonexistent than his? Are you a woman who waits for sex to be over, or fakes orgasm? Do you tell yourself that you don’t really want or need sex? If so, it could be that you believe the real you is too much for your partner. So first, let’s get something straight. Your body was made for pleasure.  Otherwise the Creator would not have given you a clitoris.  Your clitoris has no other function than

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With Valentine’s Day on the way, love is in the air! Thoughts of love, feelings of love, and maybe the disappointments of love too… What would make Valentine’s Day truly special for you this year?  Watch my video blog on saying YES to pleasure, if you haven’t already done so. And what would make Valentine’s Day not so shiny?  Could it be unfulfilled desires? Desires are important. Deepak Chopra says we should not try to “overcome” desires but rather we should become more proficient at meeting our desires. Being connected to and knowing what you want

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This video was inspired by my lovely partner who cooks delicious meals for me regularly.  Thanks, Reuben! It was also inspired by those of you who are on this list but are not in the Vancouver area.  If you are receiving my emails from California, Texas, Montreal, Toronto, Nelson, Vancouver Island, Whidbey Island, or elsewhere, I want to give you more content, not just news of local events!! WATCH THIS VIDEO TO EXPERIENCE A 4-MINUTE MEDITATION. Invoke your senses to connect to more pleasure in your body.  *You may notice that I

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This week’s topic is one that is dear to my heart: female arousal. What gets you wet, open and turned on, desiring some luscious lovemaking with your lover? Why do you as a woman need more time, often more intimacy, and more all-over sensation than your male partner to get aroused? First of all, the male body is basically set up to aim and fire in order to secure reproduction of the race. It is possible for a man to reach orgasmic peak relatively quickly with relatively little pleasure. But

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