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Dancing Through Taboo

Dancing Through Taboo

One of the best and brightest parts of my recent healing journey has been doing regular ecstatic dance.  I usually dance in my living room for an extended time at least once per week. I also go to Dance Divine on Sunday mornings, a conscious dance event in Vancouver....

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Resources For Tantra

Resources For Tantra

This week I am sending you some resources for tantra. If you are interested in spirituality integrated with sexuality, if you are interested in sex as a pathway to greater love, connection, healing and life-transformation from the inside out, this is for you! There...

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The Line Between Pleasure And Sex

The Line Between Pleasure And Sex

I recently worked with a client who asked to me:  How do I know the line between pleasure and sex?  How do I know what is sexual touch or purely pleasurable?  I want to address this question.  It's a biggie. As women, we have been socialized away from pleasure. We are...

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3 Reasons Why You Don’t Get Turned On

3 Reasons Why You Don’t Get Turned On

Do you ever want to connect with your partner, but are just not in the mood?  Do you ever feel stuck because you don't want to disappoint?  Or do you really want to connect but something is in the way? Here are 3 reasons why you may not be in the mood: 1) Your body is...

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Making Eye Contact

Making Eye Contact

Did you know that bonding chemicals are actually released from eye gazing?  We are neurologically wired to respond to another human being when we look into their eyes.  I remember doing sustained eye gazing with my partner at a tantra workshop for the first time a...

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Why Thrive, Woman?

Why Thrive, Woman?

Why thrive? Why show up? Because there is a great hunger needing to be fed. Author, Dr. Tererai Trent talks about it in her book Awakened Woman.  All of your little hungers are driven by your great hunger.  It is what gets you out of bed in the morning.  It is what...

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We’re Still Animals

We’re Still Animals

Animals bond. Humans bond. Humans are animals.   If you watch animals in nature there is a dance that occurs. Members of a group weave in and out of connection. Both bonding and individuation counterbalance.  Bonding occurs as a source of reassurance, play and...

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Now I Can Love Him More Than Ever

Now I Can Love Him More Than Ever

  It is so important to tell your lover how you like to be loved.  Both loved, and seduced. I know it flies in the face of what we would all like to believe.  Connection is supposed to be spontaneous, natural, romantic and passionate, like in the movies.  If our...

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12 Steps to Seducing A Woman

12 Steps to Seducing A Woman

Step 1: Attunement Whenever you approach a woman, notice her body language, her face expression, her rhythm of breathing, her tone of voice. What emotion does she seem to be experiencing? What does she seem to be wanting? Is it cuddling, eye gazing, or words of...

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