Are you interested in more emotional connection, more intimacy, and more heartfelt communication during sex? Less sensation, physicality and purely mechanical sex? For me, learning to have “sex without the sex part” has been one of the most wonderful aspects of my intimacy healing journey over the past few years. Before I had all the tools in my toolkit that I have now , the best part of physical connection for me was pretty much everything else besides intercourse.  Now, however, when everything else is done right, intercourse is the best

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Do you struggle to maintain your weight?  Do you spend a lot of time on your self- image and still not feel attractive?   Body image is a huge cause in feeling low desire for sex.  How easy is it to be turned on when you don’t consider yourself sexy?  You might have the hottest most sexually adept and awesome partner on the planet.  But if you don’t feel good about yourself it’s not going to matter. And why don’t you feel good about yourself? Because there is a presiding lie in society that

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Are you experiencing low desire for intimacy?  Does your partner want to have sex more than you do?  Do you wish you could balance desire discrepancy?  Or have you given up and stopped talking about it? I used to be the “low desire” partner in my relationship.  Until I started waking up to my sensuality and getting really honest about what turns me on.  It’s been a long (and continuing) journey but now my partner and I are pretty equal on the desire scale.  It’s so yummy! How did I find this

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What do you do when negative emotions come up in relationship? In the bedroom?   How do you face the issues caused by love, or triggered by sex?   Negative emotions such as frustration, fear, grief, disappointment, and resentment feel so inconvenient especially in the heat of the moment.  But they are actually doorways for connection – AND DESIRE!  In this video I teach 2 tools for turning around resentment.  First you need to feel the feeling fully instead of brushing over it.  Second, you need to replace it with what you really want or intend in the moment.  Watch

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Do you want to heal your sexuality and open fully to love? Are you tired of saying “no” when you wish you were saying “yes” to sex? Last month I polled several women around what concerns they had in their love life.  The number one concern was:  Low Desire!  I have identified 8 reasons for low desire in women.  Up until about 3 years ago, I was experiencing low desire in my own relationship.  Now I am experiencing the most tender, dynamic, joyful, loving, satisfying sex of my life!  Low desire is not necessarily

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Did you enjoy the movie we made last month, “Relationship is an Adventure?”  I’m so excited to share with you the sequel: “Leap and the Net Will Follow.” I am no stranger to taking leaps of faith.  I have followed my intuition many times in life.  Each time there was no guarantee of results, no guarantee of return on investment, no promise of being liked or being understood… Over the past 15 years, I independently recorded 3 CDs.  I took 3 major coach training courses.  Each time, Reuben stood behind me.  He was my rock. This is the first

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