Turn on takes time

Turn On Takes Time: Pt. 1

I was having a medical exam last week, a pelvic exam actually. If you’re a woman, you’ve probably had that experience where something’s being inserted inside and you notice your brain realizing that it’s not sex. It makes it so obvious how much our brains are involved in whether or not we are turned on. … Read more

My only ever ONE-NIGHT Stand

His name was Howard. He was a waiter at a fancy Italian restaurant in Upper Westside Manhattan. I was visiting from Montreal where I was studying music at McGill. Every summer since the age of 8 years old, I had been swept away from the rustic back-to-the-land lifestyle that my hippie parents had chosen, to the glittering … Read more

Learning to LOVE from a CAT!

I was at a tantra workshop 2 years ago where the workshop presenter shared that he had learned everything he needed to know about TOUCH from his cat! It was not that the cat taught him specific touch techniques, exactly.  But the cat had many different ways of responding to his touch, which ultimately taught … Read more