Why thrive? Why show up? Because there is a great hunger needing to be fed.

Author, Dr. Tererai Trent talks about it in her book Awakened Woman.  All of your little hungers are driven by your great hunger.  It is what gets you out of bed in the morning.  It is what keeps you going toward your dreams.  It is what keeps you working at something day in and day out.  It is why you came here.

What breaks your heart?  Sit with this question for a few days. While you are going about your chores and daily routines, what breaks your heart?  What do you want to see in the world that needs to improve or change?

Your great hunger gives you a reason to take care of YOU!  Self pleasure and affirming your desires, learning to love your body, learning to connect to your sensuality and enjoy your sexuality is all to feel good.  But why feel good? Because you need yourself in good and happy condition in order to give to others.

There are so many things in this world that need your love and courage and strength and care and attention.  What is yours?  You can do so many things.  You can make art, you can lead a protest, you can speak at an event, volunteer or fundraise for organizations.  You can heal animals or babies.  You can donate time, money, clothing, food, skills.  You can start an organization with your heartbreak as your guidepost.  But you must approach this heartbreak with cup overflowing.  You must please yourself first.

Why thrive?  You thrive so you can do what you came here to do!

Here is a video for inspiration this week.  I’d like to thank my friend Jelena Marda of Dance Divine Vancouver for sending this along.

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Have a great week!

~ Zoey Wren