If you are like me, your societal programming did not teach you how to follow your pleasure or direct a lover… Here’s the program I got, what about you? Find THE ONE. When you find them, they are supposed to GIVE you pleasure Oh, and they are supposed to automatically know how to give you the EXACT KIND of pleasure you like… If not, they are not in fact THE ONE! Could anything be further from the truth? That a man in particular just knows how to please a woman? And that there is just one
It’s almost Valentine’s Day! What calls to you on Valentine’s Day? For a lot of people V-Day can bring up the pressure to be romantic, to say the right thing, to do the right thing. For others it can bring up sadness and longing to be with an ideal partner. For some others it’s a fun opportunity to shower your beloved with treats and pampering, to splurge on a fancy hotel, dinner, dancing, gifts. Whether or not you are in a great relationship, or want to be in one, or
In my work with individuals and couples I experience so many different expressions of gender and sexual orientation. More and more people are coming out with their own version and label of where they are on the “rainbow.” And coming out with what it means to them uniquely. I was so inspired last spring to hear a two-spirit First Nations Elder speaking an introduction at a multi artist burlesque show. He shared that two spirits are honoured in their culture as carriers of great wisdom. They carry gifts and are
I saw my first burlesque show last spring. It was a long time coming. I live in a small town with a huge burlesque scene, so I suppose it was inevitable that I would end up at a show sooner or later. What I didn’t expect was the depth and meaning that I experienced at that first show. That night it was all First Nations artists. The show was introduced by two First Nations elders who spoke about their own “coming out” and their journey around sexuality. They shared that
Happy, Happy New Year!! Happy 2020! Let’s welcome it in with PLEASURE!! In this video, I am introducing to you my 5 Petal Tantra ™ practice method for women. This video is for you if: You are in a rut with self-pleasure and want to try something new You want to experience orgasmic ecstasy and are not sure how to unlock the magic gate You want to heal your relationship with your body and your sexuality You want better communication with a partner as to what you like in the bedroom
Are you looking for some new ways to bring spice into the holidays? Do you want to give your lover a gift that shows how much you truly care? We wanted to find a way to share some inspiration this holiday season. This video is our gift to you. The gift of TOUCH is one of the most precious gifts you can offer to a beloved. Everyone needs more touch. Giving touch is one of the best ways to create emotional bonding, relationship harmony, and feelings of well-being and love.