Couples retreat

An Intimacy Breakthrough Experience in Nelson, BC

Do you want to take a leap forward in your relationship?

Want to dive deep and transform your love life from the inside out?

The Intimacy Breakthrough Retreat is a private couples retreat for just you and your partner. You receive coaching throughout the weekend on whichever aspects of relationship or intimacy life you are yearning to shift.

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Topics to explore depending on your goals and desires as a couple:

  • Couples Communication
  • Individuation/Bonding Balance
  • Repair Conversations When Connection is Lost
  • Sexual Desire Discrepancy
  • Feeling and Sharing Erotic Energy
  • Seduction and Foreplay
  • Female Sexuality
  • Language of Touch – Expanding the Menu
  • Tantra – Deep Interpersonal Transformation
  • Identifying and Workshoping Personal Turn On, Date Nights, and Sex Play
  • Healing your Sexuality
  • Creating New Relationship Agreements/Configurations

The Intimacy Breakthrough Retreat offers a unique in-person coaching experience that is perfect for distance clients who want to immerse themselves in live experiential learning, as well as for couples that want to roll up their sleeves and create a real breakthrough!

Fulfilling relationships and intimacy is a huge key to your happiness. This could be the single most important weekend and investment of your life!


Couples retreats are offered throughout the spring, summer, and fall in the beautiful town of Nelson, BC.

Nelson offers amazing access to mountain trails, lake recreation, yoga, ecstatic dance, high caliber entertainment, a variety of top-notch restaurants, beautiful views and stunning nature!


friday (evening)

1 coaching session. Getting grounded, setting intentions, connecting to why you are with your partner, where your growing edge is, and what your true desire is for your evolution as a couple and as individuals.


2 couples coaching sessions, time for integration & lunch. Evening “home play” for practice, individuals and/or as a couple.


2 couples coaching sessions. Special Sunday date night ideas.

Monday (Morning)

1 coaching session. Wrap up and home learning plan.


Imagine four days totally free of distractions.  Take time just for you.  In between coaching sessions, rest, play, hike in the mountains, relax by the lake, go to yoga classes, spa, swim, paddle, and enjoy the town. 

The benefit of immersion is you get to focus fully on your relationship.  Away from daily life, see with new eyes, open your heart, relax into the moment and come more in your body.  

This is the ideal environment to make shifts in your experience of intimacy, and up-level your date nights, touch, foreplay, communication and connection!

You do NOT need to be a client already to book a couples retreat.  If you have never worked with us before, we will do a couple of coaching sessions in advance over distance so you can get the most out of your retreat.

Are you longing to go deeper in your relationship?  Do you want to share the weekend of a lifetime together?  Then you are ready!

Here are some common reasons to book a retreat:

  • You want some new tools for intimacy to add some spice and adventure into your life
  • You are frustrated and want to move through obstacles
  • You want to improve your communication
  • You want to learn how to repair in relationship when disconnection occurs
  • You want to tap into the spiritual and healing power of sex

The Intimacy Breakthrough Retreat is custom-designed to YOU – your needs and desires!

Over the weekend, you receive 9 hours of couples coaching. In between sessions you are given time to practice and integrate the material. Depending on your needs, you may also receive individual sessions, “home play,” demos, and time for Q & A.

reuben headshotMy partner, Reuben, is on board to offer men’s mentoring and sacred sexuality education for men during the weekend.

* Although this retreat is an intimacy immersion experience, all sessions are done fully clothed and always with respect to your personal boundaries.

Once you book your retreat, you will receive a preparation package. This includes questionnaires for both partners and individual session times via Zoom in advance. 

Once we determine the general direction of your retreat and your learning process, we also send you a list of resources and media such as books, videos or audio to help get you started.

If you are arriving by air, the two nearest Canadian airports are Castlegar, BC and Trail, BC.  If you are arriving from the US, Nelson is 2.5 hours North of Spokane, Washington by car.  There is a shuttle from Castlegar, and car rentals from all of these locations.

Spring through Fall is the best time.  Best months are May, June, September and October.  If you love to ski in the winter, we can also talk about the possibility of a winter retreat.  Nelson has a world-renowned ski hill!

You can go whitewater rafting, paddle boarding, golfing, zip line in an old growth forest, hiking in the alpine, swimming, canoeing, kayaking or browsing the numerous local boutique shops and artisans on Baker Street.  Ask us for a list!

Nelson, BC is a mecca of guest suites, AirBnbs, nature camping, and hotels.  We recommend that when booking you prioritize privacy and a comfortable, spacious bedroom!

You will find restaurants of all styles in Nelson.  Italian, Indian, Mexican, Asian, Thai and Middle Eastern.  There is also the healthy and nutritious Kootenay Country Coop for take out options.

Let us know if you would like a list of suggestions!

We do highly recommend you book a relaxing couples massage at the Himalaya Salt Cave as part of your retreat.  Unwind and refresh yourself in this healing and inspiring atmosphere. Book here.

We look forward to welcoming you!

zoey and reuben

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